Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…
A little over 4 years ago I realized what my core fear was about having and sustaining a loving, healed and healing intimate relationship. The light went on, so to speak, and ever since not only have I been standing on a fresh, renewed mindset to live my life from, but what I give to other people helps them uncover their barriers to love as well.
We grow up with so many contradictory messages concerning what a relationship is. Most of said messages arise from our fractured family lives and TV and from deeply unconscious levels. But today, in far greater numbers than in the past, people are looking for real connection, spiritual healing, hope, and freedom from the shackles of their minds. Fortunately, the answers are inside of you. It is no longer about being better than everyone else, having the correct background, job or degree, mingling in the right crowds, speed dating or being a part of the perfect online dating service. The Law of Attraction is a powerful tool for positive manifestation in your life.
“God’s will for me is perfect happiness” This is a workbook lesson from “A Course in Miracles.” Sometimes I think spiritual people don’t think it is perfectly natural to have wants, goals and aspirations. This is our innate creative impulse. Made in the image and likeness, it is natural to have the drive to expand and manifest our desires in ways that are helpful to you. Being brought together in relationships is one way we create, heal, and remind ourselves of who we are. At times I have found my love relationship to be the base for blissful personal expansion, the reflection for my tender ego and opportunity to let go on a deep level and let God. It is all those things and so much more.
If being in an intimate, thriving love relationship is a prospect that makes your heart sing, and once you truly understand that God desires for you to be wonderfully full of life, expressed, healed and joyous, the single question left is “Why do you think you have not experienced success?” The simple answer is fear. Fear manifests in quite a few different forms, justifications, and excuses. Ultimately, we fear understanding ourselves as the eternal love that we are. You can manifest perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you release yourself from fear and bondage.
It is not un-spiritual to want love, sex, excitement, intimacy, laughter, and play. It’s un-spiritual to suppress your creativity and your talents. I understand about fear, I was one of the most resistant people I knew in the area of truly letting my guard down. If you want to experience your life in perfect partnership you must take back your power, take 100% responsibility for your actions and ask for Spirit to take over. Obviously what you’ve been trying hasn’t been working. Einstein said, “No problem can be fixed from the same level of consciousness that created it”. You must take yourself to a higher level. Fortunately we have self-help groups, trained professionals, counselors, coaches and even home study programs to assist us in seeing what is blocking us from developing lasting loving relationships.
A loving, fulfilling intimate relationship is possible for anyone who desires it. Will it always be fun? No. The ego would never allow you off the hook that easily. But I’m certain that what you are searching for is seeking you. So find some support to help you remove the barriers in your mind, and I wish you all the bliss your heart can contain.
